March is an important month for every woman in the world as the celebration of the International Women’s Month begins.
An annual celebration held every 8th of March, the International Women’s Month puts into focus the history of women and their achievements towards society and culture. Month long activities advocate for women’s inclusivity, empowering them to become more confident and maximizing their potential.
While in the past women have been overlooked and have been barred from many rights, contemporary times have learned to embrace equity and inclusion.
Thus in line with women’s month, it’s the perfect time to celebrate and honor the single moms who have become a vital pillar of love and strength to their family.
Why Single Moms are the G.O.A.T (Greatest Of All Time)
They are a role model for independence
Single moms have only themselves to rely on most of the time. From making decisions to paying the bills, they are proof that women are capable of taking matters into their own hands especially when it comes to caring and providing for their children and family.
They are creative and resourceful
Whenever they find themselves in a pinch, single moms will always find ways to solve it especially if their kids are the ones encountering problems. A bake sale is coming up the next day? Say no more. Single moms will act and deliver, all for the sake of their children.
They are superheroes
Single moms are a force to be reckoned with. They are capable of doing many things and can adapt whenever needed for their children. They can pull off an all nighter just to finish a hand sewn costume for their child and they will go above and beyond to learn other skills just so they can teach it to their little ones.
They are an inspiration for single parents
Many perceive raising a child to be impossible with the absence of the other parent, but single moms are proof that it isn’t the case. Often, it can be easier now that they’re doing things on their own terms and aren’t confined or limited by their partner’s decisions or opinions. Single moms truly are an inspiration as they show just how strong a parent’s love and dedication to their child can be. They also give strength to other single parents who may be struggling.
They are confident
Being a single mom isn’t an easy task and for some it can be a role that they find difficult to fulfil. It truly takes a lot of courage as well as confidence to be able to stand up against the pressures of society. But after all the challenges thrown at them, single moms learn to become more confident.
Ways to Honor Single Moms
Do not judge her
Many people tend to judge things that are outside of the norm, and women have always been (and for the longest time) on the receiving end of many scathing criticisms and unfair judgement. There has also been a stigma towards single parents, especially moms, because they don’t fit the criteria of what tradition favours: a complete nuclear family.
One of the biggest things that you can do to make them feel not only respected but also understood is simply by not judging her. Many people’s circumstances and situations vary, and while being a single mom can be tough, they’re trying their best to be the best parent and provider they can be for their children. Instead of judging, offer them your help. This can be done in simple ways such as bringing food over, helping with picking up the children from school, etc.
Be a shoulder to lean on during difficult times
It’s inevitable that one has to face hardship and in difficult times everyone needs a shoulder they can lean on.
Single moms are strong, and they especially have to be not only for themselves but also for their children, but this doesn’t mean that they can’t show signs of vulnerability or air out things that make them feel hurt or low. In such times, be someone who they can lean on. Comfort them when they’re sad, and encourage them to release these emotions and healthily deal with them instead of bottling them up.
Get to know her story, listen, and be compassionate
Single moms are often met with judgement, but rather than handing out your final verdict on the matter, practise a healthy amount of curiosity. Get to know her story and learn more about her and her experiences. Be open minded with what she’s gone through and listen. And of course, through all of these, be compassionate. It’s likely that she’s still currently facing problems and conflict with her ex, juggling with her employment and finances while also trying to make up for lost time with her child.
They’ve been through a lot, and allowing them to share their side of the story does relieve some of that emotional burden. At the same time, giving them support adds to the strength they need in order to face their life and its ongoing battles.
Treat her out
While single moms are one of the toughest people you’ll ever encounter and are a superhero to their children most of the time, sometimes they need to take a break too and recharge their batteries.
As a way of honouring them, treating them out to something nice is a good change of pace and will allow them to spend time for themselves and with people who make them feel safe and secure. Maybe a nice dinner with simple but delicious food, or a spa retreat to get those muscles in for a good massage and relaxation.
Do something nice for her children
A single mom’s joy can always be traced back to the joy of their little ones. Thus, doing something nice for her children is also another way of doing something nice for her. Offering assistance and help like tutoring them or taking them out to play is a great way of doing so.
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